Question:
I was disabled in an accident while deployed to Iraq. I am financially and medically OK, but I am searching for something to do. I am wheelchair bound and just cannot find a niche. With full post 9-11 GI Bill benefits, I am not ready for college. Do you have any recommendations for someone like me? Omar
Answer:
Omar, you are not alone. As military members and veterans, we thrive best with a mission and goals. If you are depressed, please seek help. However, you do sound concerned about how to spend your life given your changed circumstances. Already, you are overcoming more challenges than most individuals; so relax and take inventory. A world awaits you. Commonly, veterans return to civilian life and wonder, “What next?”.
Often, people overcoming adversity withdraw a bit while confronting their challenges. Your first step is to look around. Take stock of what needs doing in your area. Slowly begin to become involved assisting others through community organizations, religious groups, local government or businesses. Don’t expect to find a mission right off; jump into your community and evaluate. Go slow. Some suggestions might be:
Post 9-11 GI Bill
Wait to use the GI Bill. New GI Bill legislation may extend your eligibility by up to five years. Check with the VA to be certain. Determine this next course of your life and then you may discover college. If you determine college is just not for you, remember that training and certification may be covered under the GI Bill. Also, consider transferring this valuable benefit to a spouse or child.
Several veterans, who survived rough times, credit art classes, such as painting, pottery or film production for helping them. So rather than discounting education, know it is available if a time arises when you are interested.
Physical limitations
I am astonished at the incredible fortitude, determination and tenacity of our fellow military members at Walter Reed. Former Senator Max Cleland sets the prototype for me. His accomplishments are astounding for any individual. As a multiple amputee, Senator Cleland immersed himself into the political arena and into service to veterans. While Cleland’s story is exceptional, accomplishment is a common theme among many handicapped veterans.
Senator Cleland, a respected author, former senator and former head of the VA, continues serving in government. My point in mentioning the Walter Reed patients and Senator Cleland is that today, more than ever, tremendous opportunities exist for people with disabilities. Stay positive. Very little is out of reach.
Your community
Try public service. Commit to working for a charity whether a food kitchen or a not-for-profit business development center. Challenged citizens exist in every community. I committed to helping veterans by discovering that few veterans know their benefits or encounter difficulty obtaining them. Help other veterans, mentor troubled youth or teach English as a second language. Are you religious? Nearly every house of worship, no matter the religion, could use someone to assist on a regular basis.
Tell your story
Consider writing. More than a few veterans publish books of both fiction and non-fiction. Give it a try. Even if you decide not to publish, you may discover things that catch your interest which again may lead to other fields of endeavor. If you discover that writing is for you, consider using your GI Bill benefits to take writing courses.
My suggestions are based upon the actions and experiences of veterans with disabilities who appear to have found success and satisfaction. See what works for you.
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